Whenever I think of winter on a train, I think of the child’s tale of the Polar Express. I imagine an old locomotive that is decorated for the holidays complete with Christmas greenery and lights. The train becomes a magical place where anything can happen, like dancing waiters serving you hot chocolate while singing Christmas carols.

As a child this was what I thought a train would be like during the winter holidays, but in reality, traveling during the holiday season is usually anything but magical. Passengers are so focused on making connecting trains and finalizing work projects before the holidays. Their spirits cannot even see the holiday decorations around them. They understand that they have to prioritize work as they travel, otherwise they may not be able to focus on family when they arrive at their destination.

It is sad that our lives seem to get busier as we grow and mature. We have to focus on that next project or work assignment, creating a cycle that never seems to end.

But just for a moment…

Take a look outside of your train. Look at the falling snow that makes the landscape the most beautiful white. You have to shield your eyes from the sun shimmering off of the ice-covered trees, as the few birds that are braving the cold weather are flying around enjoying the briskness of the wind. Then if you look closely, you may glimpse the family of deer that are looking for food in the field just past your tracks.

We need to remember that sometimes in life we need those moments to pause and take a break from everything that busies our minds. Yes, work is important, definitely something you need to focus on, but you need to also be aware that every hour, day, month or year you spend busy working is also time that you are not looking our your window. You need to find a balance to do both and see the wonderful world around you, whither that is looking at nature or the people in your own home.

This Christmas season, let’s try to pause a little more often, even if it is to simply for a moment before you get off the train or right before you walk through the front door at work. Take a moment and enjoy the beauty and joy around you. Trust me it is there. We just need to remember to look through the eyes of our younger selves and I promise you will see something magical once again.

Merry Christmas.