Why does it seem like those that have gone through more difficult things in life seem to be more joyful and connected to God, than those that haven’t experienced as many hardships?

Well, in my personal experiences I have learned, that the more we go through hardships the more we have to rely on God. This opens our eyes and hearts to see our need for God in everything. It builds our trust in God more deeply then if nothing ever went array. When things seem to be all good, we often don’t see a need to call on God for help or guidance. We tend to trust in ourselves or forget that God is there with us.

Even though we never like going through difficulties, everything is worth it when it draws us closer to God, builds our relationship with him, and brings us peace.