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Through Others Eyes
Dear Through others eyes, What do people see when they look at you? Most of the time we are told that we are not supposed to worry about other people’s opinions of us, but this is a little different. A more specific way of asking this question is, Does your life reflect total abandonment/surrender to…
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Finding Completeness
Dear Finding Completeness, Continuing with the idea of not finding completeness in a man but rather finding a relationship that compliments, I want you to think about what a responsibility it would be for a man to try to complete his woman. As a woman myself, I know firsthand how crazy my mind and heart…
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Christmas Wish
Dear Christmas Wish, I know that with the holidays, being single seems even more difficult to handle. You wish that you had that special someone that you could share all the wonderful traditions and food of Christmas with. This time of year always seems to bring out the joy and love of all the couples…
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Christmas is Coming
Dear Christmas is coming, So for this post we are going to take a break from relationships and boy talk. Instead, I want to focus on the Christmas spirit that we are all feeling at the beginning of December. I don’t know about you but if I don’t have most of my Christmas shopping finished…
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Bozo or Boaz
Dear Bozo or Boaz, It took me a long time to understand that my youth shaped my idea of what type of relationship I thought I deserved in my future. Relationships in our past often become a mirror of what we experienced, whether it was good or bad. If all we know is bad relationships,…
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Feeling Alone
Dear Feeling alone, I don’t know if this is you, but when I was single I struggled with the knowledge that I would be spending another Friday night without a date. So, I would make make plans with my friends, so I didn’t have to think about my singleness. Or I would binge watch romantic…
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Saying “Yes”
Dear Saying “Yes”, The question that is often asked by young ladies that want to recklessly abandon themselves to God, “Do I have to leave my family, hometown, and all my friends to prove that I am committed?” Occasionally God might ask you to do some of those things, but most of the time all…
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New Faith
Dear New Faith, I want to start this letter by saying that too many women have been involved in a form of religious worship, but have never had a vital, growing relationship with Jesus. That includes me. For many years, instead of having a growing relationship with God, we had rules that everyone was…
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Lady in Ministry
Dear Lady in Ministry, Do you ever have those moments in life where you just have no idea what God exactly wants you to do? Or you are seeking God’s guidance in picking a ministry to volunteer for and you just can’t decide which one? Or are you clearly feeling God guiding you, and those…
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A Lady’s Address
Dear A Lady’s Address, This subject is actually something that has played a huge role in my life. For the first 23 years of my life I was at one church and understood one way of doing things. But in September of my 23-year, God clearly showed me that I needed to change my address…